Define special dating
This is one of the most important qualities and distinguishing characteristic of having class.
Doing this requires reflecting on your own self, recognizing those qualities that you are missing and having which would make you more classy (something that few, if any women, would want to do) and working in all the necessary directions to build that attractive flair of class and sophistication.
A woman who has true class and strong sense of self does not need to run around and tell everyone how smart and successful she is, whether it’s in “real” life, or on Facebook, Linked In, Ok Cupid or anywhere else.
This urge to validate yourself through bragging is a clear sign of insecurity and of in both men and women.
As such, she does not hate men, and is not overly skeptical or pessimistic about her ability to fall in love and enjoy great romance.
This concept, along with femininity and style is hard to define, and the formal definition of “elegance” is again of not much use.