Dating new york woman
Back where I’m from, the norm is to date one person at a time.
Feeling a connection with someone was a rare occurrence and if I did meet a potential romantic interest, there was a very clear beginning, middle and end.
Time is limited, business is the priority, deep meaningful connections are often too much work (and time consuming), and everyone is in a constant state of over-stimulation and distraction.
Remember, being “hard”, stubborn, stuck in your ways, not opening your heart and masking your human vulnerability will not open the doors to create a deep intimate bond with anyone.But in New York, dating multiple people at a time is the norm, rather than the exception.The reality is the person you are seeing is likely seeing a few other people at the same time.The high frequency of business travel, the hectic work schedules, and the incredible volume of new people one meets on daily basis makes it challenging to foster the conditions for a more meaningful bond to develop.You may be used to courtship as a linear progression, but it’s just not the case here. Leave the door open to the possibility of getting to know someone in a more sporadic way than you’re used to.